Why would you want a perspective boyfriend to know about your ex or that fling you had over the summer? Remember, losers are not as easy to spot, as you would think.The word loser usually conjures the image of a man in his mid to late 30s jobless, living in his mom's basement playing video games. A loser can be charming, polite, cultured, and even successful.I’m 23 years old and I fear that I may be the product of my overly exploited-social media obsessed-generation. Most people would view this as a faux pas and even cringe a little at this statement. We’ve been dating for about a month and shortly after we first had sex I found him creating distance between us.I’ve been following your blog for quite a while now and even share some of your tips on my radio show (I always credit and cite you). This is not really what concerned me – in fact I expected that. In status aggression, one partner uses control and aggressive tactics to gain and maintain the power. Status aggression is seen in chickens, baboons, other animal species and also in humans.
But, if you put us on a leash, we’ll gnaw it off and go even more crazy once we’re free.
There are countless posts online where women complain about their deadbeat boyfriends for never paying for anything, never buying them gifts, always playing video games all day long while still living at home in their parent’s basement, and never holding on to a job for more than a year to save their lives.
Yet, these women still latch on, hoping they’ll one day change their man for the better.
Power at any costs is the dynamic behind bullying, dating violence and domestic violence.
Intimate partner violence is damaging to all concerned.