Q: I recently discovered that my husband is on several online dating sites.When I confronted him, he said he was sorry and claimed he wasn’t necessarily trying to “hook up” with anyone.But his profiles on the sites state that he was trying to connect with people for those reasons.I have not found any real proof that he hooked up with anyone else, but he is such a liar I don’t know what to believe!
Granted I was hurt because I was stressed as well dealing with my father’s sudden medical condition and him later passing away. “He said I don’t want to jeopardize my family I learned my lesson baby i’m sorry”…I want to believe him and we never had problems like this until 2010.
I’m one of your twitter followers and I’ve debated about this issue for awhile now…I read your advice posts on your website and they are so helpful so here I am.
My husband and I have been together what will be 6 years in March..we’ve been married 5 months now. Well he started back up joining those sites again and yes once again I flipped.said he doesn’t know why he’s doing it.these you have to pay and I know he hasn’t obtained a membership…I guess its a curiosity thing?
I needed to know if we’d been living a lie all this time. I needed hard data, and digital algorithms were the only definitive way to find out.
Sure, we may have been together for 20 years, and sure, we were in love, and sure, we still had fun together, but that didn’t mean anything. So my husband and I joined several dating sites to see if what was in our hearts was borne out by the metrics.