Paulina thought for a second and said, “He’s simple. And he does call or text me multiple times a day.” o Tell me what she loses if she cuts Matthew out of her life immediately. He keeps in touch with her regularly to have a female presence in his life, but conversations aren’t fun, lively, playful, or even interesting. It doesn’t matter if there was attraction and flirtation three months ago; right NOW, Paulina is Matthew’s emotional booty call. Serving the people of Tayside, Angus, Perthshire and Fife, the hospital is easily accessible and parking is available at the front and rear of the building.The building has been a health care establishment for over 75 years and is now part of BMI Healthcare, the largest independent healthcare provider in the UK with nearly 60 hospitals nationwide.Paulina is in her early 50’s – thin, blond, whip-smart, and sophisticated. ” or “I’m really tired” – but the spark is long gone. Most importantly, Matthew hasn’t made any overtures to see Paulina since their first meeting. When we talked about things, I learned that Matthew is a kind, attentive man, but he’s a bit socially awkward. Mostly clueless, selfish things, somewhat like a 12-year-old boy. She worked with me last year and came back once she found a promising relationship. Distraught, Paulina is desperately trying to figure out how to rekindle their relationship. As a result, Paulina spends most of her relationship wondering why things can’t be better, easier, more fun, more supportive.
To make matters worse they report that their partner keeps photos of the ex or communicates with them via Facebook, Twitter or Email.
Oh, he still calls and texts every day – little things like “how was your day? He mostly talks to her on the phone and complains about his life.
And ever since – surprise, surprise – he’s been a little bit emotionally distant.
Not surprisingly, Paulina was having far more trouble losing her fantasy than the texts.
In short order, I asked Paulina to do three things: o Tell me what she likes about Matthew. After a bit of deliberation, she concluded that she loses two things: The fantasy that this once-promising relationship would work out.