Many relationships breakup at the three-month point, as some people only like the beginning stages of a relationship and don’t want to get serious. He might have told you what you wanted to hear, but he didn’t come out and ask you first to be in a committed relationship, although he said he wasn’t seeing anyone else. You also don’t know if this morning when he said he loved how he felt with you, that he had swiped for the last time and was ready to delete his Tinder account, right? There’s a saying, “Seek and ye shall find.” Why did you create a fake Tinder profile to try to catch him? You felt insecure about your relationship status early on and didn’t trust him.
From where he sat, he probably enjoyed dating you and hadn’t moved to a more serious stage yet. You were happy enough with him to want your relationship to be exclusive. Chances are he wanted to see where the relationship was going to go and got caught up in the game. If you’re sleeping together, he also might not want to give that up. Probably because you weren’t sure he wanted to be exclusive with you. You wanted to catch him and behind HIS back, logged on as a fake person to see if he’d take the bait. No guy wants to feel like his girlfriend is checking up on him, even if it’s innocent.
Everything seemed good, except he was back on the dating site.
I couldn’t take it any longer; I didn’t understand why he was looking for somebody else, when everything seemed fine.
I told him how it really upset me and how disrespectful I found it, especially as it was a dating website.
He responded with saying that although he didn’t see anything wrong in it “it’s nothing”, he could see that it had upset me and so when I asked him to delete it, he went ahead and deleted his account.
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Keep in mind that finding these will give you information but will not fix the issues in your marriage.
You can check but perhaps he is just speaking to friends.
His mother had died a year ago of Parkinson’s, he’d changed careers, and moved house all in the space of six months just before I met him.
Things were slow between us initially, but suddenly they got really great, we had a lot in common and good bond and he seemed really happy, he called me his ‘resucer’.