Cougars want love and affection as much as the next girl, but these vicious vixens are mostly looking for a plaything.
True cougars have kept themselves lean, coiffed, and chic, so that they can attract younger men.
Demi Moore may have set the stage for the "Cougar Era", but her self-esteem issues were not consistent with those of the typical cougar.
Ashton was unfaithful because he's a cheater, fair and square.
Back when I was in my 40s, younger men would write me online all the time and I'd always say, "Are you looking for a mom? " They just felt younger women were too high maintenance for them and had far too much drama in their lives.
Yes, I'd dated men three to five years younger but it felt like men 10 to 20 years younger were living on a different planet.
I must admit the latter, known as Cougar Dating, was a little hard for me to wrap my head around even as a Dating Coach.
You might find that you relish the enhanced conversation and sexual dominance that can come simply by virtue of them having had ten or so more years to practice.
The fundamentals are the same talking to any woman, but a more refined lady warrants a more refined approach. Bear the following in mind and you should find this can often be far easier than going for girls your own age – and perhaps more rewarding with it.